THAT WAS YESTERDAY

I thought I knew you well
But all this time I could never tell
I let you get away
Haunts me every night and every day

You were the only one
The only friend that I counted on
How could I watch you walk away?
I’d give anything to have you here today
But now I stand alone with my pride
And dream that you’re still by my side

But that was yesterday
I had the world in my hands
But it’s not the end of my world
Just a slight change of plans

That was yesterday
But today life goes on
No more hiding in yesterday
‘Cause yesterday’s gone
Ooo

Love, my love I gave it all
Thought I saw the light when I heard your call
Life that we both could share
Has deserted me, left me in despair
But now
(But now)
I stand alone with my pride
Fighting back the tears I never let myself cry

But that was yesterday
Love was torn from my hands
But it’s not the end of my world
Just a little hard to understand

That was yesterday
But today life goes on
You won’t find me in yesterday’s world
Now yesterday’s gone

Goodbye yesterday
Now it’s over and done
Still I hope somewhere deep in your heart
Yesterday will live on

SAYING SORRY DOSEN’T CHANGE ANYTHING

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When do we feel like saying sorry?  when we are feeling guilty of doing something wrong to others. when we feel that we have hurted someones feelings, we say sorry. Have you ever thought  that your sorry will or will not absolutely fix everything right between you and your friend or some person? Yes, they might say that it’s okay, but sometimes it’s not okay. I am not trying to say that saying sorry is wrong, yes do say sorry, but always saying sorry sometimes don’t fix things.

Everyone of us have done mistakes in our like and have hurt feelings of others very badly. This maybe in a relationship with someone we love, parent, friend, or may be stranger. Knowing unknowingly we have hurt their feelings, and have said sorry uncountably in our life. A time was there when we were too hurted badly by someone close to us. So, have their sorry fixed everything right between us?  There is always some things that we can’t forget. Most miserable thing is breaking someone’s trust. Even is you say sorry many times it won’t set everything right. Because they are hurt by someone whom they had trusted more than themselves.

Always remember saying sorry can only get you back your friend, but not his/her trust.

“I am sorry” can fix small things, but will not Automatically set the damage done by you.

NEVER LOOK BACK!!!!!

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Let’s talk about this whole dating thing…

When you start to date a guy, and you reach the point where it’s safe to tell your friends that you’re involved to one degree or another, people smile, tell you they’re happy for you and say:

“I hope it works out.”

I’ve heard this a lot, and about more than one guy. The problem is, I’m not quite sure what it means. When a relationship “works out” does it proceed indefinately to happy, elderly bliss? It feels like we’re too goal oriented to enjoy the relationships while we have them, focusing only on “making it work.” At least, that’s how I’ve felt up to this point.

There have been two great romances in my life so far, and half a dozen lesser ones. By all conventional standards (meaning I’m not a polyandrist dating all of them) they did not “work out.” My friend  says that we hold a piece of those people in our hearts forever, regardless of who we see in the future. I would like to say that I benefitted, grew, and loved completely in those relationships, regardless of whether they “worked out” in the end. They were right for me at the time, and they made me become someone new and more complete. Thinking that dating was a means to an end, instead of a process in and of itself made me mourn the losses of those friendships more than celebrating what we had.

I am extremely reluctant to posting this where all can see, but I think I will. It’s important to me that the people this is about read it, but I want others to read it too. Maybe it will make the difference in someone’s day. Maybe someone needs to see the frienship they’re in as something that’s happening today, not drafting intricate plans for tomorrow. Maybe. And Maybe not.

An Innocent sweet story : A little princess

When the story opens, we see the mushy smushy interactions between a little girl named Sara Crewe and her father (let’s call him Papa Crewe), who are extremely sad about an imminent event. The imminent event happens to be the fact that Papa Crewe is shipping Sara off to boarding school in London (the cloudiest, most dreary of all places to be abandoned!) because she simply cannot stay with him in India. It’s not good for children because sun is worse than rain, and foreign countries turn good children into savages, or something.

(In case you’re wondering: yes. This is racist. In fact, the whole book is a tad racist. We’ll get to that.)

Sara arrives at Miss Minchin’s Seminary for Girls, which is a fancy boarding school run by a humorless old maid named (you guessed it!) Miss Minchin. Papa Crewe buys her lots of expensive clothes and toys, including a doll named Emily, and then jets off to India again.

Miss Minchin treats her as a star pupil because she’s rich, but secretly she has a serious dislike of the little girl because she’s intelligent and independent—and Miss Minchin doesn’t like to feel threatened in any way. Sara makes friends with a not-too-bright girl named Ermengarde and takes a little girl named Lottie under her wing. She also befriends a scullery maid named Becky and wows everyone with her impressive grasp of the French language. So far, London is a success.

On Sara’s eleventh birthday, Miss Minchin plans a huge party and Sara buys a giant doll that she ominously refers to as “the last doll.” However, as Sara is celebrating, Papa Crewe’s lawyer comes to the boarding school and gives Miss Minchin some unfortunate news—Papa Crewe has died. Penniless. With no money to pay the bills.

Minchin is angry because of the money, but she’s delighted because now she can hate Sara openly. Overnight, Sara goes from the richest student at the school to a maid who’s forced to sleep in a tiny attic room and perform all sorts of chores. She somehow survives by making up fantastical stories, befriending a rat, and talking to her doll. Yes, she’s a pretty weird little girl.

Despite the fact that she’s poor, hungry, and cold, Sara still manages to act like a princess, dispensing charity and speaking proper English. Meanwhile, her neighbors—a large family and a rich neighbor with an Indian servant—are watching Sara, who they find very odd and sad.

We get to see inside the Indian man and his house as well—and there is something reallllly interesting going on! The Indian man happens to be searching for the child of his friend, Ralph Crewe, who was also his business partner in diamond mines. Basically, the kid of this Ralph Crewe fellow is going to be stinking rich when this Indian guy finds her. Hm, Ralph Crewe. Something about that sounds familiar … Oh, hey, it’s Sara’s dad! Unfortunately, the man is totally on the wrong track, searching in France and Russia.

Meanwhile, on the other side of the wall, Sara has gotten herself into big trouble. Miss Minchin punishes her severely, taking away the meager scraps of food that she’s been living on. Sara goes to bed hungry and upset, but when she wakes up in the morning, she sees that her room has been magically visited and is full of nice things, a warm fire, and filling food. Magic and sorcery!

This whole “elves in the night” thing continues for a while and Sara and Becky are not quite so starved anymore, which bothers Miss Minchin because she’s a total witch, and not in the cool J. K. Rowling sense.

Then, one day, Sara returns a monkey to her rich neighbor’s house. (Really.) When she gets there, the man and his lawyer realize that … wait for it … she’s Sara Crewe! Sara comes to live with the man and receives her inheritance, and Miss Minchin is predictably miserable when she realizes she’s made a terrible mistake in treating Sara poorly and missing out on all that money she could have had.

So, in the end, the good are rewarded and the bad are punished—just like in a real fairy tale. Happily ever after!

SIXTH SENSE TECHNOLOGY

‘Sixth Sense’ is a wearable gestural interface that augments the physical world around us with digital information and lets us use natural hand gestures to interact with that information.

We’ve evolved over millions of years to sense the world around us. When we encounter something, someone or some place, we use our five natural senses to perceive information about it; that information helps us make decisions and chose the right actions to take. But arguably the most useful information that can help us make the right decision is not naturally perceivable with our five senses, namely the data, information and knowledge that mankind has accumulated about everything and which is increasingly all available online. Although the miniaturization of computing devices allows us to carry computers in our pockets, keeping us continually connected to the digital world, there is no link between our digital devices and our interactions with the physical world. Information is confined traditionally on paper or digitally on a screen. SixthSense bridges this gap, bringing intangible, digital information out into the tangible world, and allowing us to interact with this information via natural hand gestures. ‘SixthSense’ frees information from its confines by seamlessly integrating it with reality, and thus making the entire world your computer.

The SixthSense prototype is comprised of a pocket projector, a mirror and a camera. The hardware components are coupled in a pendant like mobile wearable device. Both the projector and the camera are connected to the mobile computing device in the user’s pocket. The projector projects visual information enabling surfaces, walls and physical objects around us to be used as interfaces; while the camera recognizes and tracks user’s hand gestures and physical objects using computer-vision based techniques. The software program processes the video stream data captured by the camera and tracks the locations of the colored markers (visual tracking fiducials) at the tip of the user’s fingers using simple computer-vision techniques. The movements and arrangements of these fiducials are interpreted into gestures that act as interaction instructions for the projected application interfaces. The maximum number of tracked fingers is only constrained by the number of unique fiducials, thus SixthSense also supports multi-touch and multi-user interaction.

The SixthSense prototype implements several applications that demonstrate the usefulness, viability and flexibility of the system. The map application lets the user navigate a map displayed on a nearby surface using hand gestures, similar to gestures supported by Multi-Touch based systems, letting the user zoom in, zoom out or pan using intuitive hand movements. The drawing application lets the user draw on any surface by tracking the fingertip movements of the user’s index finger. SixthSense also recognizes user’s freehand gestures (postures). For example, the SixthSense system implements a gestural camera that takes photos of the scene the user is looking at by detecting the ‘framing’ gesture. The user can stop by any surface or wall and flick through the photos he/she has taken. SixthSense also lets the user draw icons or symbols in the air using the movement of the index finger and recognizes those symbols as interaction instructions. For example, drawing a magnifying glass symbol takes the user to the map application or drawing an ‘@’ symbol lets the user check his mail. The SixthSense system also augments physical objects the user is interacting with by projecting more information about these objects projected on them. For example, a newspaper can show live video news or dynamic information can be provided on a regular piece of paper. The gesture of drawing a circle on the user’s wrist projects an analog watch.